This girl faked her pregnacy for 9 mons.....
I wasn't sure where to post this, but I just really need to vent.. this girl, "got pregnant" by her fuck buddy of almost 2 years and found out right after, in her words, we were completely done.
I offered to go to her appointments, she always made an excuse, she was just bashing him, never said yes please come.. kinda odd but okay.
My mom's her boss, she never fasted for the glucose test, never had her appointments scheduled, she always said, oh yeah I need to call a schedule that, never left the office for more than her hour lunch to go to her do tors appointments.
She is on the heavier side, but her body never changed.
She had a baby shower at the same place I had my wedding, we all bought her tons off stuff and I was super excited for her.
Then the guy and her finally started dating... then her apparent high blood pressure was fine.
She was due may 25th, said she was 5 cm dilated Last tuesday, and said the moved her induction from last Wednesday, to Thursday to friday, to this past Wednesday. She deleted her fb Wednesday night.
We never saw a ultrasound pic or anything, her feet never got swollen, and she was eating junk all the time at least at work so it was weird she never got huge like women do the last month of her pregnacy.
Well Thursday my mom text her and said, baby?. She replied that he didn't make it and they sent her home from the hospital at 41 weeks pregnant from her scheduled induction..
She told my mom she's waiting till Monday she thinks to go.
She flipped out before all this saying she didn't want anyone at the hospital, fuck everyone blah blah blah.
Her baby daddy, went and bought a house, got a second job, and she started a bunch of bs with him and his family.
She also told me they gave her a pill to be inducted and she didn't want to take it...
Now she's been talking to my mom, but hasn't responded to either of my texts, one saying.. today's the day good luck, and the other asking is everything is okay and how she was doing.
Her first question to my mom was how does this effect my maternity leave.
Am I crazy to think she's lying? I really hope not. I feel so bad for her, she needs help.. what do I do? I've known her and been friends with her for a long time. But nothing adds up.
UPDATE- there are texts I commented below, she told my mom's boss, she was in the hospital for 2 days and that she filed her fml paperwork with her doctor a month... I'm sure everything will unravel more in the next few days. I will keep yall updated!
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