Am I being crazy?

Question

Ok I've been blowing up at my boyfriend all day and I feel bad because I could communicate my feelings in a healthier way but I just get so upset and he doesn't seem to understand why. So here's the first situation:
He gets his hair cut by an ex friend of me. She's my ex friend because she talks shit about me to everyone. Tells everyone my business and makes fun of me. But what does it say about me and my relationship if she cuts my boyfriends hair? I think it makes it seem like I'm the one who did something wrong in the friendship and that if my bf still talks to her (but he doesn't even like her she's just good at cutting hair) but that makes me look bad! It makes it seem like my bf doesn't stand by my decisions. 
The second scenario: we're in line at a store and the person in front of me goes up to one of the registers and I take a tiny step forward because a bunch of us were packed together and I wanted space. I wasn't asserting myself as next in line (because I wasn't and I know I wasn't) I just wanted space. And my boyfriend grabbed my arm and told me to stay back and that I wasn't next and looked at the lady who was next and apologized! What am I? A child! He can be so degrading sometimes. Am I overreacting?

Answer

You aren't crazy, I tend to blow my guy up a lot.

Anyway, he shouldn't be getting his hair cut by her, especially because you dislike her and he knows that. He should have no contact with her at all, as a man and boyfriend he is suppose to respect that you don't want him around her. Unless you haven't told him that(if not you should do so). Still, she's not going to do anything, but go back and say "(your name)s boyfriend gets his hair but by me etc etc" that's not cute!!!

You have to just talk to him and let him know exactly how you feel honestly.

Answer

Write down your issues and how it makes you feel. Then when you have the chat focus on the main points so you don't get angry. Like When you x then I feel x etc

Answer

Hunny he did nothing wrong on the first one he just got his hair cut and I agree with you on the last one that was wrong

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