How to learn/accept/move on/remain happy when bad things happen in life?

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My 6 year relationship ended at the beginning of May and I have a lot of changes going on. I'm a lone for the first time in a long time, I'm getting my own apartment and will be living alone. This is all very new to me I know there is a lesson in this but idk what it is yet. I'm trying to see the good but I'm still so hurt and want to be with him 😢

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The beginning is hard but it's also a great time to find new hobbies, friends and interests. You end up discovering who you are and become so much more confident and brave when you redesign your life after a breakup. Have fun decorating your new place!

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I know exactly how u feel. But u know what the good thing about this is? CHANGE!!!! Many people are afraid of stepping out of what they know as their comfort zone because change can be scary but it's also great!!! U get to spend some time with urself and understand where u r and where u want to be. U already made the first step. It wasn't easy but u did it. The next steps should get easier as u continue ur journey. Stay on the path. Everything happens for a reason.

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I went through something similar and my puppy is the only thing that got me through it. She was my rock. She made living alone bearable. If you have time for a puppy I highly recommend getting one.

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Time heals everything. Try to concentrate on yourself. Treat yourself. Is there something you always wanted to do but never had time? This is the right time. I know it's easier said than done. Do the things you like to do, catch up with old friends and family.

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Wait with dating. And do not commit to anyone once you do start.
Take your time. Learn to self-soothe, self-entertain. Learn who you are when there's no boyfriend to compromise with. Pamper yourself. 
Work out! Gym, yoga classes, dances - at the very least it helps anxiety.
Reach out to friends. Go out every once in a while even if you feel like just curling up in bed.
Movies, theatre, clubs by interest - keep yourself busy.
And... be gentle with yourself. Healing takes time. Surrender to your moments of weakness. They, too, will pass.

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Find out your interests and commit to doing it a couple times throughout the week. Accept how you feel, but don't stay there. Be productive.  Choose to be happy. Prayer and reading. This has helped me drastically.

How to learn/accept/move on/remain happy when bad things happen in life?

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