Do you ever feel this way?

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My boyfriend right now wasnt a virgin when we started dating, hes had sex with 3 girls before me. Just at parties and nothing serious until he met me and started dating me a years ago? Doe sit ever bother you, the idea that he's touched another women like that? It kinda hurts to think about and I feel jealous for some reason.. Help me not think that way.. The past is the past but I can't stop thinking like that..

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We just don't think about it. I'm his second and he's my 5th!
Technically I'm his first cause him and his last gf only had sex a handful of times and it was nothing to brag about!

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I was lucky to met my bf when he was a virgin at 22. BUT I havr been with my fair share of men and I know it bothers him ALOT he got over it. But its a sensitive subject to him. So it is very natural to feel that way. Just try not to think about it

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I wish my guy's number was only 3! But then I tell myself, he's not a slut, he's experienced. ? And experience pays off ?

Honestly, I try not to think much about it. I'm jealous by nature and sometimes it bothers me but it's not something we have control of so why worry?

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I know the feeling. My boyfriends been with 28 girls before me (I'm 29). I can't help but think about how many girls he's been with. It shouldn't bother me, but sometimes it does. But it helps knowing that he's not the cheating type. I know my boyfriend doesn't have a single cheating bone in his body. I just sometimes wonder if I'm terrible in bed compared to them (although he says I'm not). I try to think about the fact that I have him, they don't. Yeah it sucks, but it's the past. He says he knows in his heart that I'll be his last, and he wouldn't ever want anyone else. Maybe it's just the number that bothers me?? Either way, I know what you mean. You just have to not let it get to you. Easier said than done, but it's what's best. Head up ❤️

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Nope! Everyone has a past and that's where it should stay. My husband's "number" is higher than mine but I know that I'm his last.

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you guys are in a relationship for a reason! if you expect him not to think too much about his ex's.. then you shouldn't either!

my boyfriend and I decided that the other girls? don't exist. there are no ex's. they don't get brought up. we don't talk about or compare ourselves to them because they're irrelevant. I'm in the same boat as you so I understand. but don't let your insecurities and jealousy turn you into just another ex for some other girl to think about! best of luck ❤️❤️

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He's my first and I know he slept with quite a few of his exes and just some random hook ups. It hurts to think about so I try not to so that it doesn't cause problems because it's his past its done it's over he can't change it.

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Yup im on the same boat, but were both been with our fair share of partners, but the only thing that bothers him is that before i met him or knew anything about him, i had a one night stand with his roommate whom i had met on christmas day of '07 met hubby Jan '08. So we try not think about it! And were happy and ttc#3!

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