Am I crazy for trying again?

Question

I posted this before in a different group but didn't get much feedback...

Well I lost my angel on May 17th. Since then I don't feel like myself and my boyfriend is concerned. It's been a really hard and sad time for us. 😔 I'm 20 and in nursing school. Our angel baby was a complete suprise but we were SO happy and excited about him/her. We have been together for three years and both have good jobs.

We wanted this so badly. But we are ready to start trying again. After this miscarriage we realize more than ever that we want a family together. We want to start TTC again because doctor gave us the clear.

In ALL HONESTY do you guys think I'm crazy for wanting another baby? I know finishing school with a baby is hard but I KNOW I can do it. I'd love to hear your thoughts, please be honest. 😊

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My husband and I tried again right away once we got the ok from the doctor and we were even slightly rushed because he was deploying in 2 months (he's a Marine) infortunately we didn't concieve before he left but he's home now and we are trying again! My point is: if you're ready to try again than you're ready! Your opinion is the only one that matters! Good luck! Hopefully we get our BFPs very soon! 💕😘

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Not crazy at all! I knew that I wouldn't feel better after my loss until I was able to conceive again. I still wonder about that baby often and what he/she could have been, but I wouldn't have my sweet Nora Haze if I hadn't gone through that. She was my rainbow after the storm and she helped me heal. 💕

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it's not crazy . I'm 20 also & lost my baby girl in November & haven't been the same since me & my boyfriend been ttc since December & still is . hoping this month is our month 😩🙌🏽 .. ik exactly how you feel especially because my baby was basically fully developed 😭 I'd say go for it , baby dust to you 😘

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I am also in nursing school . Just recently had a mc last month nd still hoping for a bfp this month. Your not crazy .! Don't wat ur heart tells u to do. . Who ever said no one finished nursing school pregnant or with a baby ... Good luck and baby dust to u 👶🏽✨✨✨✨

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Your totally not crazy!! Some people find them in a position, where a surprise pregnant, that doesn't end well often makes them realise how much they wanted it. Life just knew what you wanted before you did! Good luck in your new venture and I hope it happens soon for you both 💗

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Sorry for your lost, I know what it is to lose a baby. That little person inside u that u started bonding with, but if u feel like you are ready both physically and mentally then go for it give it your best shot.

I took losing my son so hard last yr I had sessions with a psycologist, I cried whenever I felt the need to and I knew regardless what happened my terrible experience I wanted to try again. I had fears of trying what if am faced with another lost but guess what I didn't make my fears get the best of me. I tried again and here I am 31wks pregnant due August 9 can't wait to hold my baby. So if u feel you can do it then go for it hunny, be brave be strong u can do this.

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Not crazy. I lost my girl I'm Feb. At 22 weeks I needed to have a baby I was ready to be a mom. I love my daughter so much but not having her here not being able to physically show her my love I want to show her the mom she has watching over us
  3 months later.. Im now 5+5days pregnant. I couldn't be happier.

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You're not crazy at all. After a loss you either go one way or another meaning you either want it so bad or you don't at all. I found there is no inbetween. After my second loss i knew that i just had to be a mummy again. I am grateful that i have one healthy beautiful little boy but i had a gap that needed filling. So we tried straight away and got pregnant 3 months later. I am now 25 +1 weeks pregnant with another baby boy. Never give up! Baby dust

Am I crazy for trying again?

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