need some insight!

So im currently with this midwife (23weeks preggy) & I get a feeling im just a number, like just a pay check to her, she doesnt fill in half the stuff on the antenatal visits, never checks my weight, I have to ask for the protein in the urine pee stick test thing everytime, shes not interested in including my partner at all & has never even said hi to him, nor my mom when she comes to appointments. so I decided to have an appointment with a different midwife, who is actually my partners cousin, shes super friendly & nice & I feel like I would be looked after however my SO doesnt like the fact shes family, any one have opinions or advice, im totally stuck! sorrry this is long