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Im 27 weeks pregnant, me and my boyfriend dont live together. But he's always there for me when I have dr's appoinments and always asks if i want food or If I need something. We've been together for 2 years, and threw our ups and downs we still going at it strong. I dont really get to see him alot, my parents don't accept him, it makes me fraustruated that they think they can handle my life, im 18 allready, and im not allowed to see him for whatever reason! We do see eachother behind their backs when I can, but i want to be able to do my own things. Am i wrong for doing that? I just feel alone? Am i the only one? Im enjoying my pregnancy very well, im exited counting down the days until i have my baby boy? in my arms. I just don't know how to deal with all this. Ladies please help! ?

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Your parents only want to protect you, their job (I'm assuming if they're good parents). While legally you're an adult, emotionally you're not, and your parents know it. No offense, but you're 18 and pregnant, you're giving your parents ammo to not care for your SO. Soon you will feel the overwhelming desire to protect your offspring, even from themselves. I suggest 2 things: work on rebuilding your relationship with your parents and BD. You're going to need both of them. Next, stop sneaking around. You want to be an adult? Be one and respect your parent's wishes for THEIR home, or move out. Best wishes

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You're parents want the best for you and where you are going to be a teen mom that is understandable not many teen mothers have the fathers around after the baby is born and many relationships can't handle the reality of having a child together at that age. They just want you to focus less on your love life and more on the life growing inside you. I know it can be scary and you want the babies dad by your side, but try putting all your focus on the baby and have him do the same like have him buy you baby clothes or pay for your doctors appointments or something, when they see his interest and see he can support you and your child they will come around

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Without know thing the full situation, I do think you will appreciate your parent's help and protection in the long run. They can see the situation from a different point of view than you can and may be able to see potential disasters in the future. My advice is to sit down with your parents, calmly and respectfully explain to them how you are feeling. Then ask them what they are thinking, what is their plan? Try your best to really hear them.
Remember, your parents are probably scared. They want what's best for you and definitely what's best for your baby boy.

If you have any more questions or concerns feel free to reply!

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You're an adult! Plus your parents shouldn't be able to keep you apart when you're having his baby! Idk the whole situation but I would say to possibly look into getting your own place so that way your parents can't control when and how you see him. Good luck with everything !!!

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Maybe moving together

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