Virginity questions

I just got like "losing my virginity" recently (in approximately a month) with a boy i'm so much in love with, and ever since i just can't feel like the "joy" of doing the hook-up things. My V was always feel like in a light pain, and sometimes feels like it got beaten. I never "came" ever since 1st time i've done it with my boyfriend, in other way he was always came out first. I don't know what happens with mine. I'm just wondering, like, is that normal? Please give me some advice. Thanks