I need to rant.

So my friend just recently had a baby about a month ago and her boyfriend and her treats it like its playing a freaking game of house. She loves him when he's good but as soon as she has to do anything hard she had him off to the next person they both do that. And honestly I'm worried for his well being both her and her boyfriend threaten his life when he crys too much. They throw dirty diapers and baby clothes ALL over the house. He's had a low grade fever for 3 days and she hasn't taken him to the doctor yet. He won't stop spitting up he pretty much spits up everything he eats and she does nothing. Honestly it makes me so mad because there are women on here including me that would do anything for a child and then you have to sit back and watch these people be bad mothers. I just don't understand it