Husband taking a fertility test!

As I feel AF coming on and one BFN (12DPO) I am thinking of asking my husband to do and at home sperm check thing. We have been trying since July which I know compared to some ladies here is not long at all but I really want to know. I'm worried he will get upset, he is already starting to feel I'm doing to much. He thinks we should just let it happen when it happens...but I'm in full baby making mode! It doesn't help that my family is all full of fertile Mertles who take no more than 2 cycles to conceive.....they are NOT helping with their comments. Feeling really down today...