Support for Trying

We are getting married tomorrow and have been trying for 7 months to get pregnant. Nothing. Not even a scare. Went to the Dr. Nothing is wrong. They wont even consider doing more tests until after the year mark. We are both so low when babies come up. People asking how soon we are going to be trying. My mother asking when she is going to be a grandma...... People giving advice like "just stop trying" or "it will happen when you least expect it". It's heart breaking. We need support. I was wondering if anyone is in the same boat. Being a mommy is my last goal. My Husband and i both have well paying careers, a house. All we want is to have kids. I feel like i did everything right. We waited until we could emotionally and financially support children and now i just feel like I'm being punished. Anyone else relate? Sorry for the rant. Just sad.