The Back Door (ANAL)???

Question

My long term boyfriend and I have never been ones to shy away from trying new things in the bedroom, however, as of late he has been begging for us to try anal sex. I cannot be the only girl terrified to try it! I understand the taboo around it, and I love my boyfriend so much I would be we willing to try it with him, BUT I am still scared. Can you blame me? We've all read the online articles with the not so sexy anal stories... Any pointers? Your personal experiences? How you like it?

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First off, don't just do anal and no build up. YOU have to be just as excited as he is or you'll tense up and it'll hurt. I would suggest 'stretching' yourself out with fingers, then toys, THEN the penis Bc well nothing is meant to go up there so you gotta kinda loosen yourself before hand (don't freak about the word stretching. It'll go back. I garentee you've taken poops bigger than him) use lots of lube, I prefer silicone based for anal. Just remember that a or is should never be the first thing going in there or you run more of a chance of getting little micro tears.

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Lots of lube! Have him start by putting a finger in while you guys are having (vaginal) sex. It gets you (kind of) used to having something in there (that sounded weird 😂)! Make sure y'all go slow and STOP if it starts to sting (a tear could be forming and they get infected suuuuuper easily due to like 💩).

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Lots of lube, have him insert a finger or two slowly, in and out. Then have him go in. The tip will hurt the most but after that, it's golden. I love riding my SO with the backdoor, he has an amazing orgasm. Good luck!

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I had never done any anal play with anyone before I met my current boyfriend. I was so terrified and always saying how I would never ever allow someone to touch me there let alone have anal sex. My boyfriend was super into it and had been asking to try it with me. I kept pushing it off longer and longer until one day I just said okay. It was weird. It was like an instant decision where I knew I was ready to try it and we did. Now we have anal sex a least a few times a month and he always fingers me there. I think it's super hot. Just wait until you are ready! And obviously, use a lot of lube.

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It feels like a backwards shit mostly really sensitive.

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Just use lube!!

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Hahaha I'm in the exact same situation! I've tried it twice before but it hurt way more than I thought it would and so I told them to stop 🙈 I hope you're not feeling too pressured into it!

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