My husband needs help!!

Ok...... So I'm a few weeks away from giving birth. This is my husbands first born child. He is excited and all that....but he thinks anything I say about prepping for birth or post partum stuff is "gross" and "ewe"! So I'm over here feeling like I have to hide everything that isn't "pretty" about this whole thing instead of feeling supported and like we are doing this together. He won't listen to me and I already know he won't read any books about it. I dreamed of doing this birth natural and as "one" like super team work and just bonding and everything but now I feel like I'm on my own and it's actually really discouraging to not feel supported at all. I get that a lot of husbands want a porn star wife but that's not reality!! (He never said that, I just think that.) What can I do or suggest to him so he can get over this and be a part of my team!!??