Help please

I get thrush get it every month three days before my period. This month i got like normal. Me and my bf we having sex he stopped and he has thick white stuff all over the condom and i had this white stuff everywhere it looks like the cream you use when you have thrush but i havent used it in two weeks....i feel fine but it was nasty. Really thick and white any ideas?? We use lube now could it be that.