Help!!

I love my man to death I do. He is the best thing that has happend to me but the sex isn't were id like it to be.

Im not greedy and I dont ask for sex. I dont even like to talk about wanting sex or to make love, I would like it to be something romantic, ya know, spur of the moment, let your body tell me that you want me (corny i know). Understandably I'm not going to get that all the time, or how often I would like.

But beyond the point, I do not believe or agree with cheating, and I haven't felt comfortable masturbating at all ever, but im seriously considering it because im becoming sexually frustrated.

Please,honest and no judgment, how should i start? Im so new to this...

Do you ladys have any pointers?