Cheated on

So today I found out my husband cheated on me. This is the second time. Well the first time was physical the second time is verbally.i found different text messages on his phone. Him calling women sexy or we should hook up sometimes. To me you don't have to have sex to cheat once you say to another person you should hook up that's it for me.I don't know if y'all ladies ever felt like enough is enough. I'm at this point. I know is might be stupid but the first time I forgave him was because of my kids my biggest fear is to see my kids going two different homes that's not something ever wanted. I never had a complete family I wanted my kids to have what I didn't have. I remember when I was little I used to cry not to go to my dads house. Every kid always have a favorite home whether we like it or not.i was trying to avoid that but this is something I can't stand. After he did it the first time our relationship wasn't the same anymore. I felt like a mirror after you break it you can't put it bck together no matter how much glue you put on it. With tears in my eyes to be honest I don't know how to start a new life. I don't have family support. I'm a stay at home mom. I don't have an income so I have to look for a job I love working that's not my problem.but mentally I don't know how to do it .is anyone that has a good advice that being through this please help me I have to be good for my kids. Going back is not an options. I need to move on.