Texts at 3am? (Rant)

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Husbands phone keeps getting texts, its 10 till 3am and I'm awake because lo is kicking the crap out of me. I'm on here and his phone keeps going off, I don't want to be that wife who checks her husbands phone but now my mind is racing thinking about who tf is messaging him at this hour.

I admit I have some insecurity problems and a jealous heart, not my best qualities but I'm not one to go off the handle at things. Like I see his IG full of hot Asian chicks and I see him gawk at women on the street but I bite my tongue because let's be honest I too look at good lookin men and it is only natural to glance. A stare down is something different. (To me)

I'm just kinda losing my mind right now and feel so ridiculous that I'm so worried about these texts at 3am. I mean we're married now and although we've had some difficulties in the past that are obviously still affecting me I want to have complete trust in him. again I'm insecure right now, maybe now more than ever and pretty damn hormonal.

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I would check, only because I would assume if there was a 3am text then something might be wrong with a friend / family member.
Otherwise texting at 3am is just bloody rude.

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I would definitely check to see who it is. Whether you're married or just in a relationship. If someone calls my bf that late I'd need to know who it is and why they thinks it's okay.

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My husband has gotten some texts after midnight from work related stuff(he was included in a group text and received alerts when anyone texted in the group). He's a marine and some of his coworkers were up late talking about dumb stuff. You could take a peek and see if its a number or name you recognize so you can stop worrying, or if it's not you can ask him about it in the morning if it's still bothering you. Could it be a family member with something going on? If you have no reason to think its another girl I'd just ask about it when he wakes up, chances are it's nothing unless you have reason to suspect.

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It could be a drunk friend. If you don't want to check his phone ask him in the morning who it was. Casually mention that his phone woke you, or was going off when you were awake. . . You should be able to tell by his reaction / response if it's shady. I hope it's just a drunk friend. Good luck.

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i would check it & feel no ways. me and my s/o have a open phone policy so, if it goes off at three, ima check it, might even respond & then when he wakes up tell him that so and so messaged while he was sleeping, if its a cheating situation that you find out i'd check it & then mark it as unread & not say anything that whole day & then ask random questions just to see if he'll be honest...if not i'll go beyonce lemonade on the whole situation.

#IAintSorry

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Yeah maybe drunk friend, or friends on different time Zones?

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I would check

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Id check bit just cos it could be an emergency if he has got more then one :S my sister gets like 0 signal in her house so cant phone will fb or text

Texts at 3am? (Rant)

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