In a relationship with a military man.

The guy I'm talking to is in the navy. He's in Virginia and I'm in Maryland for the summer He's been very busy lately and I understand that I just want someone to talk to. We talked about it yesterday and he told me that I just don't know how much pressure he's under so it's not that he's ignoring me he just doesn't have the time. I just wanna know does anybody else deal with this and how do I.