I am so in love with my fiance. We've been together for 3 years and have been through ALOT(and when I say a lot I mean a lot, things most couple would never make it though). We are very much alike, we go at it sometimes and jump down each other's throat a lot, about stupid and petty things. I feel like I'm going to lose him by the things he says to me when he is angry. Then he takes them back when he calms down. I am scared, I love him very much and couldn't see being with anyone else. The problem is that when we are fighting, he feels like I have a horrible bitchy attitude. (Which I can admit to, but only when it is appropriate to have an attitude) Half the time I don't realize it and the other half, I act the way I act because of the way he is.... But he won't take responsibility for his part in the argument. I can't tell if it really is me, or what but I have no clue what I'm doing wrong.

Let me add this, I love this man, and I know he loves me, we have a wonderful amazing time together, like when it's good, it's GOOD, but when it rains it defiantly pours. I don't know what I would do if I lost him, and he also says he never wants to lose me. That we are simulates and going to get married and be together for the rest of our lives. Ladies I need advice, I don't know what to do to mend our relationship, (from past problems, trust issues and past break ups) and make it to were we don't argue so much.

I always want to add, please ladies please, I don't NOT want ANY negativity, so all the negative comments, please keep them to yourselves.

AS women we need to build each other up NOT tear each other down, PLEASE NO NEGATIVE FEED BACK!!!

ADVICE ONLY PLEASE, AND THANK YOU.