Should I end a friendship?

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I was seeing this guy, but when he said he wasn't ready for a relationship we decided to stay friends with possible benefits. We never had actual sex during the time we we're seeing each other, but I did perform oral sex on him. When it came time for benefits, he chickened out. He wanted to wait until we got tested. So I make the appointment & I ask if he's going to get tested. He replies "I dunno." So I got mad and we didn't talk for a few days. He apologized and I told him we should be friends only (no benefits). Everything was going fine until yesterday. He asked me to go down on him again. I tell him if he returned the favor I would consider it. But he used the same excuse about being scared about STDs. So I told him I'm not putting myself at risk by going down on him than. He got mad and said he's never had an STD. I told him I've never had one either & that I'm only getting tested because he asked me. I haven't heard from him since. Yesterday's argument was all through text. I'm not sure if I should just completely end it or not.

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Tbh it sounds like he's just talking to u for oral sex. He's telling u to get tested as an excuse to not have sex but instead for u to only give him oral sex. Fuck that guy 😒 but don't actually fuck that guy

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He's being disrespectful of you and careless about your health and his. End it and get yourself tested in case.

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Keep it ended. Lose his number. Delete his number and keep him blocked. There are so many men out there. You don't need him. You don't need someone who only wants a fruend with benifits. Know your worth!

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I haven't talked to him or had any form of contact with him since I ended it. And he hasn't tried calling or texting me. I didn't block his number, so I'm positive he didn't try. I did block him from Facebook messenger, so if he tried there, then I don't know. I thought I completely blocked him on POF, but for the past two days he's looked at my profile 3 times. I think he's going to try to contact me soon, but I'm not sure how to handle it. Part of the problem is despite our problems, I really cared about him

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Big update: It's officially over between me and him. We had another fight Friday and this was kind of big. First, he tells me he needs me, craves me to go down on him again. I give him one more chance, telling him if he take care of me, than I would take care of him. I get no response. This is all through text. Two hours later he says he met someone. All I said was why didn't he tell me sooner and he said it shouldn't bother me since I'm seeing other people. I told him the truth. That I'd only been out once since we had broken up (we use to be a couple). He didn't say, but he essentially called me a liar. I told him I always told him the truth. But he just kept saying he didn't believe me and that I shouldn't play games. I stopped replying back to him until the next morning. I made it clear I was saying the truth, that he was really the one playing games and that I was no longer his friend or his whore. Then I blocked from being able to contact me on POF and Facebook. I didn't block his phone yet. I want to see how long before he tries to contact me like if nothing happened.

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Small update: So after a week and a half of not talking, he called me yesterday and at 9:30 in the morning. He's never calls me that early. I had overslept and was eating breakfast. It was Sunday morning. I told him I couldn't talk because I was eating. He said to call him later. So a couple of hours later I called him back, but it went to voice mail. He's always having problems with his phone. I haven't heard from him since. I knew he was going to contact me, I just thought it was going to be by text first. That's what he does. He texts first, then calls. We met on POF & I paid for the upgrade, so I can see when he views my profile. Which is exactly what he was doing when we weren't talking. The only reason I'm on the fence about ending it is I have another issue going on and could really use a friend. Other than this one issue, we can really talk to each other

Should I end a friendship?

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