He gets on my nerves sometimes.

My husband is a good man and I love him but sometimes I just want to leave. He gets on my nerves.  Tomorrow he is having a friend come over that doesn't get to come over often and my family is also coming over, which yesterday he was okay with this.  Now, all of a sudden, it's a huge issue.   We have enough space for everyone but he thinks it will be too cramp.  This friend is someone who creates beats and he and my husband make them together sometimes.  We also have a 5 month old who, when he is sleeping, need to be somewhat quiet. I just don't see why it's such a problem now.  It's not like you'll be able to bump your music when it's loud anyway.  I don't see my family but once every other month and he sees his friend more than my family.  I just need to vent this out on here.  You can leave comments if you need to but I'm not really looking for advice or anything.  It's just irritating that he was cool with it and now he has flipped 360degrees to not being cool at all.  He says do what I want but apparently this, what I want, is something I can't do.......ugh.