Is this wrong?

Question

My boyfriend and I have been getting more physical lately and I've been having issues setting boundaries for myself. We recently humped each other (all clothes on) but it's difficult for me to feel good about it and I feel like I keep doing something wrong. Is humping and making out a sin? I keep trying to repent, but it's getting more and more difficult.

How do I effectively tell my boyfriend where and when my limits are?

Also, can you all please pray for me and my boyfriend's purity? Thanks!!

Answer

Just keep holding each other accountable. It's normal to have feelings of arousal cause God gave them to us to have towards the opposite sex for his purpose of the marriage bed being holy and multiplying (having children). Everything will be okay as long as you lean on God and hold each other accountable and stop the situation before you feel it's going too far. 😇

Answer

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lfL-QJClWKY&list=PLhZejCzDImAcVrWfDwBThtBzc6xPJlCd8

Jefferson Bethkey, "how far is too far to go when dating?"

I strongly encourage you to follow that link and watch. He's an interesting guy you'll like his videos. ☺️

Answer

Thanks for the responses.

And he does respect me, he's probably the most respectful person I've ever known. But I've reestablished our boundaries and expectations. We are holding ourselves accountable and I've found support. I've also prayed immensely and repented. I'm thankful for this experience actually, because I've grown closer to God and I have rethought my priorities. And I still love and pray for my boyfriend everyday.

I just ask for prayers for my SO and I and our spiritual journey. Thanks! 💕

Answer

Don't be alone with him! It's hard to be sexual with your parents/ friends in the room. It'll be annoying but if purity is important to you don't put yourself in tempting situations. Don't beat yourself up God doesn't expect perfection just progress from who you were before.

Answer

Tell someone you trust about your struggles have them hold you accountable, if your boyfriend can't/won't respect your boundaries you might have to cut him lose,

Is this wrong?

Let’s Glow

Glow is here for you on your path to pregnancy

25+ million

4.8 stars

20+

Getting Pregnant

Pregnancy

1st Year (Baby & You)

Baby Products