Second child guilt?

Question

Is it weird that I feel guilty if I do things with my second pregnancy/child that I didn't do with my first? 
For example, I didn't keep up with bump pictures with my first so I didn't do it with my second either. 
I also didn't keep up with monthly photos (which makes me so so so sad and mad at myself) so I'm not going to do them with my second either (I'm still pregnant). 
It might just be because my kids are so close together (my son will be 20 months when my daughter is born) and I'm already afraid my son will feel kind of unloved because his father isn't around but my daughters is. 
Am I just crazy?

Answer

I felt guilty for having a second one at all. Then he was born and my eldest loved him so much that I realised that I was making both their lives fuller rather than taking something away from them.

Answer

I've been feeling like this lately too! My first child is 3 and in pregnant with #2. I love my first child so much and feel guilty that I will
Miss out on time with her when the new baby comes! 
I'm Hoping it'll all go away

Answer

I totally understand as I have been the same way. You're not crazy, just a caring mom!

Second child guilt?

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