Here's a nice convo thought. Boyfriend wants to know how we feel during sex.

So last night we had sex and he finishes. I, like most woman, didn't get heart desire of pull pleasure. No big deal. Just asked to have him play with the toy. He did so and asked why I don't let the toy go all the way deep like I let him. He's bigger then the vibrator I have and I told him it hurts when it's  fully deep. It hurts because it doesn't bend like a penis. And I tried explain that deep pain in way that he could relate. But I can't think of an example that's valid to the pressure pain I feel. Sometimes the pain is good and sometimes it's a get out of me now pain.