So I have this best friend that I anyways knew I wanted as my maid of honor, we've been friends for 10 years that's been the plan since we were 15 that she was going to be the one next to me when I get married. So we got engaged last Sunday date was, August 7th, 2016. I've been thinking about this a lot, I don't know if I want it as her anymore, just because she like to stay on the safe side, she doesn't want to do exciting memorable things and she doesn't have the money for all the things that the maid of honor does. I love her to death, I don't know what I would do without her, but I feel like she won't give me the experience that I want to have and the ideas I have. I have another friend that likes to do all the same stuff I do, and she doesn't care what others will think of her. I feel really close with this new friend that I have now. We won't be getting married for awhile so I still have time. Anyone have any advice?