Masturbating your virginity away

So uhh I'm alil confused. Im no stranger to fingering myself but I'm scared to use something else because I don't want to lose my virginity to a vibrating toothbrush? But I've already fingered myself many times so does that mean I lost virginity to my right hand? Also is the reason why I've never orgasmed because I've never used a toy??? So many questions 😪😅 help a sista out 😁