Loved or spoiled

Ichigo • I have one daughter. I'm also pregnant with my second. Unmarried.

So my baby is one and I'm getting a lot of flack about spoiling her. I don't personally think I've spoiled her, but everyone tells me picking her up when she cries is bad because she's one now, giving my food to her is bad because she's one now, she's under me all the time because I'm spoiling her.

So my question is if a mom automatically picks up their toddler the moment they cry would you call it spoiling or giving extra love and tenderness?

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