Approaching one year TTC

I am supposedly "healthy." However, I am on my 9th month of TTC and using almost everything: soft cups, preseed, boxers, aspirin, zinc, OPKs and the PH method. We baby danced 8 days of my fertile window using the soft cups and PreSeed for 4 of them. BFN 10DPO then,30 minutes later, started spotting my that night it was a full period. Four Days EARLY WHICH NEVER HAPPENED BEFORE