(Ex) boyfriend issues

Ok so my boyfriend recently told me that he wanted to be friends and not date, because he said I'm too insecure and he can't handle it and that if I fix myself he will get back together with me. Well I tried to be friends with him and stuff but it really hurt because I didn't want to see him with other girls and etc.. So I tried to be friends but we would text often and now he's saying we text too much. I'm really getting my hopes up that we will be together but I feel like we won't even tho he says we will. Should I just drop him for good or comply?