So tired of the negativity, drama & stress :(
Went to the hospital last night due to fatigue, vomiting, shaking & contractions. 35w 3d.
Got released about 3 hours later, my doctor told me I got thrown into all of this from stress.
Me and my husband live with my grandmother and both of my parents. My mom hasn't had a job in about 7 months and hasn't been looking actively. Just the other day my grandmother called her out on being lazy and not caring for the well being of others. Needless to say it caused a HUGE fight with my parents that changed the whole atmosphere in the house.
Then, yesterday after me and my hubby get home from work my husband started talking about having a guys night with my dad before the baby is born. My mom started saying how she wanted to go to the concert they're going too and how she will just stay home by herself. She said she was joking but the tone of her voice made it seem she was being dead serious and actually pretty irritated with them going out. My husband called her out on acting a certain way and told her to calm down. He didn't curse, call her names or anything. We both went upstairs and I hear my mom storming into her room telling him to get a grip, calling him an asshole and a piece of shit. That caused another argument with my parents.
Now she's not talking to anyone.
While I was at the hospital that's all she was talking about to me while I was having contractions and in pain. How much of a jerk my husband was and how she deserves more respect than he gave her. Didn't seem to care that I was in the hospital. Said "you're in good hands I guess" while I was throwing up and just walked away.
My house is falling apart and I don't want to bring my son into the negative atmosphere. It makes me want to cry.
Now I'm at home, in pain with her having a GIANT attitude not speaking to my husband, my father, or my grandmother. I'm so over it...I can't even smile at her because she won't look at me because I didn't "stick up for her"
I just want to relax in my own house with my family full of people who love each other. Not full of all this hostility, anger and stress.
I need a bath, massage, and some cookies :'(
I'm a sad momma.
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