So if sex hurts you...should you fake it and keep going or ruin the mood for your man ? Curious ..

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So lately sex hasn't been so great for me...and it's not intentionally. There's times where it's 😍😍😍 and times where it's .... 😳😅😫. And I don't wanna say "Ouch" or "please stop" or keep complaining when he's seeing stars....what would you do ?

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I've yelped and yelled, "That's my goddamn cervix!" and he just changed to a position he knows I find comfortable and we kept going. If it's not comfortable, speak up!

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Girl you better say something! Pain is not pleasure all the time! If you say something I'm pretty sure he will slow down or something...

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Tell him!  My husband gets me in a bad way every once in a while, but I tell him and we adjust. No big deal. 
If it's constantly painful no matter what you do try more lube, and if that doesn't work call your obgyn.

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You need to tell him when it hurts. Imagine if your BF was doing the same thing to you. What if it hurt him to have sex with you but he didn't say anything. Wouldn't you feel like the biggest piece of shit ever? So tell him, nicely. Together you can find a solution. Maybe a different position, or he can be more gentle. Sex should never be painful, (unless you're into that). Communication even more important than sex in a relationship, you need to tell him what's going on.

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I actually ran into this not two long ago. The first day it hurt and I didn't say anything and I was really sore and uncomfortable the next day. A couple days later it was hurting, so I just told him "hey whatever we're doing is hurting" and he was like "why didn't you say something?" He grabbed some lube, we changed positions and he slowed down a little and sex went right back to 😍😍😍. So I recommend communicating so you can both be seeing stars!

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Communication. It's healthy to talk to each other. It's not healthy to do painful things.

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Communication is key in any relationship! I would say something. You don't have to stop but get more comfy by switching the position. I always tell my husband when I'm in pain. Trust me, nobody will be more understanding than your husband who loves you. Why would the love of your life want to continue hurting you. Always be open and be confident.

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If its causing you pain the STOP and go see your dr and figure out whats wrong

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Always tell your partner of it's not good or painful. He feels better if you feel better. You have the right to stop things or change positions.

So if sex hurts you...should you fake it and keep going or ruin the mood for your man ? Curious ..

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