mixed feelings ? maybe?

But not thinking about the future won't help you plan and prepare for the things you want to reach. We want to marry but then if we don't even have a financial plan, how are we gonna build up for the future? Everytime I kind of mention something about preparing for what we want, it makes me feel as if I were desperate for a ring, a house, marriage, etc. and he feels pressure. That's not my intention at all. I just think that it is important to prepare the field for when the rain comes.