working on my marriage before building a family- venting sesh!!
I've been married almost 1 year and have never been more unhappy.
Before we were married, my husband had a great attitude about life, he worked extra hard. That's who I thought I was marrying.
Since then, I'm expected to support him since he refuses to get a job. I get to work all day, most times 10-12 hour days then come home to a disgusting mess of a house. He doesn't acknowledge my feelings emotionally or physically. Everything is about what he wants.
He has serious health issues but has overcome this before. Nothing is more unattractive to me than when a person has no independence, or knows that they need to work for it.
The countless times I've tried having an adult conversation with calmly discussing these issues with him, he doesn't give me any indication that he's heard or understands what he issues are or that they need attention.
The fact that he doesn't care to try to do better no only for himself but for his wife and possible new family is a huge slap in the face. I was adopted and I've always wanted to start my own legacy, however I refuse to bring a child into this world if this marriage is not working. I also refuse to condone this behavior and teach my children it's ok to have no ambition.
Men are idiots.
Women are crazy.
Why are women crazy?! See line 1! 👆🏼
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