Mom snapping

I know mom's are incredible but man sometimes as a daughter I wonder why we argue so much. I love my mom, I'm very affectionate by hugging but she has never liked being affectionate. She is rather love at a distance. I feel hurt sometimes.

She as a mom has done a lot for her children and we appreciate that. I just get hurt when she does get tired of helping out she snaps on me.

How do we talk and figure it out.

How do I tell her I want us to spend more quality time together.

Any suggestions how do you and your mom spend time together or how do you let her know you appreciate her