Advise

Had my lil boys christening on sunday, lots of people there including my friend, his girlfrirnd and their tiny (7lb 3oz) prem baby. He was born 6 weeks early, was almost 2 months old at the christening.

The baby got upset rather than console him she dunked his dummy in coke and said the sugar rush will shut you up!! She did this 3 or 4 times and asked my lil sister not to tell anyone. I dont think this is right and not sure weather to tell my friend.

She didn't care who had the baby, my friend kept asking who had baby and she didnt know. She made him up a bottle in a dirty bottle, had old milk in it she just tipped it away and made new milk in it, i offered to wash & steralise it, she said she doesn't bother he does it when he gets home, even when the baby poo'd she couldnt be bothered to change him and just shouted at the babies dad to change it and said i dont do nappys at weekends.

I am concerned about this lil lad. My friend works every other weekend, so dies that mean hes in a dirty nappy til hes home from work?? And the fact that this baby was 6 weeks prem and she is giving him dirty bottles open to germs when he is so vulnerable does concern me.

I dont know weather i should mention these things to my friend & poss cause arguments between them or weather to report it to authorities or to let it slide. But know if anything happened to him i would never forgive myself.