Me and my boyfriend fight all the time. We are both stubborn. I'm a pretty good listener but he never listens to what i have to say.....maybe it's because we use too many YOU'S instead of I'S, pretty much attacking each other. Well anyways, we got into a fight today. Last night, he wanted to go party with his friends and i decided to give it a try since it's something we don't normally do. We had a good night, only slept a few hours. We walked home and then i was gonna go to sleep, figuring he would too. After all, it was 7:00 am. But he made us breakfast first. We ate, we layed down. Next thing you know, he gets up and says he wants to invite his friend over to clean. I said okay. Meanwhile i try to sleep and the house is loud so i couldn't. I was kinda upset, because these past few days all we've been doing is spending time with his friends. Less cuddling, not really anymore us time.....today i realized he would rather spend time with his friends then me. He's the type of person who wants to be out doing something all the time....even things like i didn't agree on wanting to do. I never really used to want to hang out with his friends. I wanted to give it a try but i get annoyed when it's everyday......plus today was my last day seeing him, i don't see him all week. And i don't know i was just annoyed because he had his friend over and then they didn't even end up cleaning. I thought we could spend the day together and it was just the exact opposite. So we got in a fight over it, because he's leaving for the army soon. He says he wants to spend time with them which is understandable, but he acts like he will never see them again. I guess he thinks they treat him better then i do, which i don't know why. He used to be comfortable relaxing at home with me, and now it's like he can't stand doing that anymore. Plus he is stressed out. And since I'm a cause to that stress like he says....i left his house when we fought cause all he did was scream at me and lock me out of his house. We always come back to each other and say we will fix this and fix that and stop fighting. And we've just never accomplished that. I know we both love each other. He's just more of a social person, likes being out all day, he's an extrovert. and I'm more antisocial. I enjoy being inside, having me time, more of an introvert. I try to go out of my space for him, but he never wants to compromise and stay in with me....he's only in his twentys. Keeps telling me he won't do drugs/partying once he goes to boot camp but it's hard for me to believe..oh and btw we been together for a year and eight months.
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