he does all the work during sex?

Question

Okay so me and my boyfriend have sex a lot. Usually doggy, missionary and that's about it really, I hate being on top I just can't ever get the hang of it. He's "jokes" that he does all the work and it makes me feel like shit. He said I should do positions that will let him sit and enjoy it and I want that but other than being on top either was just doesn't work :( what can I do ladies?????

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Being on top isnt necessarily bouncing all over his dick, lean your body on his, fore head to forehead and grind on his dick but keep your body laid on his get him to put his hands all over you or pin him arms to the bed above his head, bite his lips, neck kiss him go slow and get rhythm then build up speed, but this position is more slow and going fast gets awkward, unless sat up i used to sing the song 'baby grind with me' by pretty ricky in my head haha that kind of rhythm is good youll be dripping as its great position from clit stimulation butmy  hubby goes wild for it as hes not in contol but he cums quicker this way! Good luck relax and dont think to much into it xxxx

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If you have him lay on the edge of the bed (legs touching the floor and laying on his back on the bed) have him spread his legs a bit then you get on top but facing the other direction with your feet also on the floor it makes it much easier to bounce and when he wants to look but all he sees is ass 👌 works really good

Like a reverse cow girl but on the edge of the bed

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Practice makes perfect! Even though it's not working now, keep trying. Don't give up. You'll eventually learn how to move so that you both enjoy it. You have to want to learn. Watch porn or something to get more of an idea on how to position yourself and move right. You dont want to keep feeling like a boring lay during sex..Gain confidence girl, youll eventually learn..lots of girls go through the same thing. Good luck.

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Being on top can be tricky. If you want to try it again. Pretend you're parents are in the next room and don't want them up hear you. Start out slow to get the feel of what feels right. Then slowly build up. Dont be nervous or feel bad it took me two hours to get the hang of it.

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Sometimes it is good to take initiative guys really love to see a girl want their cock and take matters into their own hands but if you're just having sex a lot with him just cause he wants to and you "don't mind" sure letting him do all the work is fine but, he should be glad he's getting any at all!

he does all the work during sex?

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