What a freakin bummer!!

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My husbond is mad at me this morning, didn't even do Christmas with my son and I, last night he had an overnight shift 5 am til 6am this morning. He wanted to set the train set up we got, and put the gifts under the tree... I told him that I would do it, that way he could just come home and get acouple hours of sleep... He didn't like that and said no.... So  my stupid self wanted to do something nice... I set the train set up for him... He for home was ok with it and went to sleep for acouple of hours now my son woke up and ready to open gifts my husbond goes out to turn the train on and our roommates tell him they helped me, now he is pissed cuz I had them help!!! Grrrr

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I think your husband is over reacting. No offense but it's Christmas. Even if he was angry at you he should have dealt with it for your son

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No matter how small it seems to others, setting the train up for his son meant something to him as a father. Working long hours he probably misses quality time with you both and as a dad, he probably wanted to do that, so not only he has the memories but your son does too. Men have a lot of pride when it comes to these things, especially when it comes to other people stepping in to do things that he already felt he should be doing. Especially when it comes to family. I can tell you love him and wanted to help. But sometimes you just have to step back and let it be. Maybe you should apologise to your husband.

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I don't think he is over reacting HE wanted to do something special for you and your son even after working a night shift and you go an get his friends to help, if you had to do it then you should have done it on your own..

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He wasn't mad that I did it, he is pissed that I let them help me. Then act like he is just fine and great with them. Then turns around And bitch at me.

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It kind of sounds like he needs a glass of wine and a power nap.

Totally not your fault.

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He's just tired stay positive and he will get over it

What a freakin bummer!!

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