How hard was it?

Km • 27. Married 5 years. Our daughter Stella Claire is our entire world. Born Nov 15. 2015. Pregnant with #2 due in April.
How hard was this week knowing up u weren't pregnant...? Every time I was doing i know I had an aunt or cousin who was like "hallelujah you're not pregnant" and wow that hurts..they have no idea how hard Eve tried. Why would they put that pain on us. I'm 26 not 14...really?!?