My husband called me a control freak!

I would like to know honestly what that means. He also called an unloving wife. I love him and I think he is a great husband and dad. We have been together for 6 years, officially married for 2.5years and we have a 1.5years baby girl and a 3months baby boy. I'm just trying to be a better wife. What should I do in order to be a better wife? Thanks