is it okay for our guys to tell their friends about our sex life?

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i just found out today that my S.O. is telling his friends everything about our sex life. it made me furious when i found out, because i don't want anyone else, besides him and i, to know what we do in bed. but then again, i'm questioning whether it's stupid to be mad at him for this. (he doesn't know i'm mad, but he knows i haven't been responding to his text much.) would you guys be mad at your man/woman for telling their friends what you guys do in bed?

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Do you ever discuss details of your sex life with your friends?  If you don't and you have an issue with him talking about it, then make sure he knows that you have boundaries when it comes to that kind of thing.  Some people like to talk to their friends about it and others don't.  It's all about preference and discussing what your limitations and expectations are with your partner.

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I personally would not mind it but I can see why others would.  You don't want that person imagining it.  Just talk to him and tell him you aren't comfortable with that.  He didn't mean any harm.

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It is kinda awkward when my bf was telling his friends about our sex life because I was there. He was openly talking about it right in front of my face. If I could turn red I would of. I think it's something u should keep between each other. Even though I may share some details w my girlfriends but that's what girls do. I still know what to share n not to share and he's never around when I talk to my friends about us.

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For me I know my husband talks to his friends about our sex life and I'm ok with it bc I talk to my friends about it also. Not everybody is like that though. Some are more open than others. If it's something that you don't want him talking about then have a calm discussion with him.

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I always just expected it because I talk about it with my own friends. I don't see it as a big deal but if you have an issue with it you should (calmly!) bring it up with him and tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable.

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It all depends on what you are comfortable with. The issue here is that he didn't ask you for consent on the matter, so you have the right to be upset. Personally, I'm not to weirded out by my partner discussing our sex lives, because he always asks before hand. Usually with a "hey, can I tell *insert friends name here* about *insert topic involving our sex life here*?" It's just a respectful thing to do. And make sure that his friends have consented to that sort of discussion too because just boasting about your sex life when people don't want to hear about it is also gross.

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I don't think it's fair that my partner can share such a personal thing. I don't share it with anyone and I'd appreciate him doing the same. Such issues need to be talked about.

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When i first had sex i made the mistake of telling my friends somethings i wish i never wouldv, but i didnt realize my mistake at the time. Talk to him about it and let him know how you feel.

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Well I want I want to say yes but I also want to say no it's practically a double standard you have some guys who killed who did all the guys and they talk about the girls and the things they do it situations with it but is more like bragging about hiit up to five as women we have our times sometimes we go ahead and you know we express the things I mentioned it to us last night or whomever we are dating thing so like I said it is double standard

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My boyfriend told his friends a few times how many times we've had sex ( too many times to count ) and other stuff but he doesn't talk to anybody about it other than that one. I don't personally care if he does. But it's people's opinions.

is it okay for our guys to tell their friends about our sex life?

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