Need help

I currently have a kidney infection and because of that im in alot of pain. The pain now is getting unbearable and my dad refuses to take me to the hospital because apparently I need to push through it and deal with it, and because in his opinion the hospital is for emergencies only. I have taken strong painkillers and i also have no one to take me to the hospital. Does anyone have any ideas on how i can ease the pain?

Update: my dad ended up taking me to the hospital, i gave them a urine sample and they said things were fine. They dont exactly know whats wrong but they are sticking to me having a Kidney infection.