what would you do?
My husband is into music. He usually goes to the music studio Saturday or Sundays. I started getting annoyed because there was a period of time that after the studio he would go to a restaurant/bar with his music partner without communicating to me. I told him several times that all I wanted is communication between the two of us. Anyways, one day I had this urge to know where he was and I checked his location through find iphone. He was at the rest after several hours out of home. I am pregnant, at that time I was on bedrest at risk for premature labor. So I called him and asked where he was and when he was coming home and he lied, he said he was at the studio. I don't tolerate lies and I flipped. He knows I know all his accounts and passwords. I have never had trust issues but that bothered me greatly. It was the first time I had a confrontation because of a lie. So I got suspicious and got into his FB and I noticed that he liked several pictures of this girl. After little investigation I realized she is a fucking waiter at this rest. However, I didn't find any conversation or anything incriminating. What bothers me is that he clearly shows interest in this girl and on top of that is a waiter at the place he goes all the time "with his friend". We had an argument and he tried to brush it off saying that all the waiters know about the music project and they wanted to see more. I argumentes that they have their musical page and there was no need to add her to his personal fb acct and that I find it disrespectful. I noticed he was very nervous but again, I have no proof. Anyways, I erased the girl from his personal FB and if I'm not mistaken I blocked her. That was like 2-3 mons ago and I let it go. Last night I went to his FB which he has told me he doesn't have a problem with it and found her name on the search history. I'm disappointed rather than mad.
I didn't find anything inappropriate but we all know that if you are doing something wrong you will not leave trace. If you were in my position would you confront him or let it go? I hate feeling like an FBI psycho but I hate lies and secrets. My six sense tells me that there is something. I don't know what to do. Confronting him might be pointless like last time.
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