first off let me say I love my husband with all my heart. Although I am so heartbroken right now. Our little girl came into the world on September 28th. I had to go to icu after the c-section and baby went to the mom and baby floor. My husband was great in the hospital, he went back and forth from checking on me to staying with our sweet baby. When we got home the first couple days he was very attentive to both me and baby, then whenever I began walking without making a face of pain everything changed. I guess he just assumed I was fine. Since, he pretty much does nothing. Every now and then he will wash the dishes if I just let them pile up. If I ask him to hold her while I do something he acts like it's outrageous, and other times he is fine. My main problem is he goes to work everyday from 6:30 til 5 or later. When he comes home he sits on the couch maybe an hour sometimes less and then he goes to the bedroom and plays his Xbox the rest of the evening until he goes to bed around 12 or later. Normally no time with me or baby. I'm heartbroken, I'm exhausted, I love him so much but I am near my final straw. He played video games religiously before our baby, but my entire pregnancy his excuse was that he wasn't going to play anymore when she came so he was basically getting a bunch of play Time in because he would be saying bye to his game. But that was a lie. I don't know what to do. I grew up without a dad, well a shitty one rather. And my little girl deserves so much more.