Preventing Pregnancy

Why in the world, when preventing pregnancy, that the woman has to be the one to get her tubed tied, take birth control or put some foreign object into your body not completely knowing what it will do to you. Is it so bad a guy can't wear a condom? Yeah it feels better without it but, how would an unplanned baby feel? Or herpes, chlamydia, gonorrhea or AIDs? You choose but in my opinion I would rather sacrifice an unwrapped sucker for my health and for the child's sake. Just sayin! Thanks for listening to my rant!