Sex and foreplay

Well my SO and I are always having sex like two or three times a day and we just had a pregnancy scare. We do the foreplay thing I'm not really big on oral sex, but I enjoy it!! I'd rather give him oral because that's what he likes, but after all the foreplay the sex comes and goes really fast!! Sometimes it's over before it even starts!!!! I enjoy the sex with him. It's not always fast I just enjoy having sex for a long time and I get it every one in a while. I was even considering tell him about the KY products for men, but I don't know how he take it. Do you think that would be a good idea??? Also we are TTC