Scrub 😤😤😪😪

So I am dating this guy who is 32 years old and I am 24. He has custody of his 2 children and has been living with his parents for the past 7 years. He is a really great guy it's just he is sort of a scrub. He is always asking me to help him pay his bills or pay for groceries and put gas in his car. I don't mind helping him out but I am starting to feel like he is never going to get his stuff together and be an independent man. It's just hard cause he is a really good guy. Any advice or have any of you ladies been through this and how did you deal with it?