Am i right to do this?

NO BASHING PLEASE ONLY ADVICE.

Basicly what has happened is me and my hubby have gotten into an argument and im stuck at work on nightshift. Its so hard for me because im sat here all by myself and have to be awake all night and things are gonna brew and brew and brew on me and i know that aint good for me. I am really upset about something and he has been being so immature and insensitive towards my feelings. I currently suffer from anger problems and all he has done all night is provoke me via text message. I have tried to rise above it and turn off my phone ignore his messages & take deep breaths but at one point im sat here crying with anger and he just finds it hilarious sending me stupid pictures and saying things to me. Iv not replied to his messages and am much calmer now while writing this but im still all worked up and really want to relax.

I know by doing this i am just as immature and will rise to his level but im so pissed off and want him to feel how hes made me feel. he is currently trying to stop smoking and when he cant have a cigarette or a nicorette gum/spray or if he doesnt have his "hit" as i call it he is the most angry. So my plan is wjen i get in from work to hide it all. Hide his wallet so he cant buy any and hide his gums and sprays and just stand there and laugh at him and make him feel how he has made me feel tonight. I know people probably think i shouldnt be with someone like that but its not as easy to walk away from someone as people think it is and my relationship isnt worth walking away over something stupid like this. Like i said rising above it is the best thing to do but for many times now when he has did this i have rised above it but clearly he hasnt learnt his lesson. For him to support me with my anger problems i feel like i need him to experience how he makes me feel when he provokes me for him to understand if that makes sense? I really dont know what else i can do. Im tired of being the nice guy and brushing something like this under the carpet

Iv explained to him many times how hes made me feel and he doesnt get it because hes young immature and knows everytime i wi rise above it. But im tired of rising above it

I need another solution before i seriously crack because right now i want to rip his face off. And too me thats not normal to feel that way towards your so.