boyfriend wants a break
My boyfriend out of no where told me he wants a break. I accepted it but he wouldn't communicate very well with me. We've been on a break for a litttle over a week now but we do still live together. Well today we had sex after he made it seem like he wanted to try again and after he said that was a mistake for both of us. So of course I got mad and finally he said "I just need this break because I don't have feelings for you anymore. And I don't want it to be that way. I acted impulsively earlier today and I am so sorry. We've just been fighting a lot and I need space. I need to start doing better in school and work on myself so I can focus on you again. Everything is going be okay I promise you. Just relax. This is going to work out I just can't do it right now. We jumped into a relationship too fast and skipped the friends stage. So that's what I want right now is to just be friends and we can work our way back up to more than that. I want you in my life always. Everything will fall into place". I have no idea how to feel right now because I'm crazy about him and it really hurts that he doesn't have feelings anymore. I'm just trying to understand how you can lose feelings but still want to try to get them back. Has anyone had a successful break from their SO? Or has your SO ever told you they didn't have feelings anymore? I want to make him see me the way he did before all the fighting (which was over little stupid things). I just have no clue how I should go about this.
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