Baby fever

So currently in getting divorced cause my husband asked another man to have sex with me so I could get pregnant and then asked him to take me out on dates and stuff like that after this man tells my husband that he has feelings for me.... And now this man is my boyfriend and we are seriously talking about having kids but he wants to wait till we are married cause he will never hear the end of it from his family and he is also morman but but I don't want to but I also don't want to push him ..... In sick of hearing all my old friends having babies and how everyone is saying im to young and how I should wait and blah blah blah im 22 young yes but im already having 2 doctors say that if I want kids I need to have them by 25 because of uterine and cervical cancer im not adopting I didn't give up my first daughter at 15 just to be told I can't have another one ... Help??!!??